domebuka's version from 2017-07-23 16:27


Male Multiple Orgasms without Ejaculating: Exactly How to Have Them
Nat Eliason in Sex
Until a few months ago, I was insanely jealous of women.


Between foreplay and sex, a woman can get off 10+ times in a single session, and those orgasms can last 10-20+ seconds.


Guys? We get one 5 second sticky white crotch-sneeze, followed by an intense desire to nap.




But then, a few months ago, I figured out something that blew my load mind…


Not only can guys have multiple orgasms in a single session, they can do it without ejaculating, with no recovery period, and they can have prolonged orgasms that last for over a minute.


Just less jizz
Just less jizz


It doesn’t take long to figure out either. It only took me a month from discovering this was possible to actually doing it, and I didn’t have this article to guide me like you do.


When I coached a friend on it, he had his first “non-ejaculatory orgasm” in just two weeks.


So if you’re ready to radically change how you think about guy’s sexual pleasure and orgasm… read on.


And if you want more on non-ejaculatory orgasms, and making sex even better, pick up a copy of “Come Again? What Men Should Know About Amazing Sex” which this article is from.


Discovering Multiple Orgasms
I had never even considered the idea until it was mentioned off-hand in a podcast episode between Dave Asprey and Emily Morse.


The conversation went roughly like this:


Dave: In this old Taoist book… it said to limit your orgasm to no longer than 30 minutes.


Emily: A 30 minute orgasm? … Did you try it and make something like that happen?


Dave: The one time I tried, it was more than 8.5 minutes. Your abs hurt a lot, and you’re like, “Could I just stop, please?” Literally, I’ve had enough. Please go away now, which to me was a new experience.


There’s all these things that your body can do around that stuff that are not taught anywhere that I know of.


And then… they just went on to something else! I was standing there in my kitchen going “what the fuck? An 8 minute long orgasm? you can do that (directed downwards)?”


Then I forgot about it for a bit… until Tim Ferriss did a podcast where he drunk dialed some of his fans and it came up again:


Guest: Tell me about Tantric sex. How to do it, how to explore it, where to start…


And while Tim said he didn’t like “tantric” or multi-orgasmic sex very much, he mentioned The Multi-Orgasmic Man and “Orgasmic Meditation,” both closely related to what’s called “Tantric sex,” something that Dave had mentioned as well.


Finally, I had somewhere to start my search. But less than 24 hours later… I was pissed off and dissatisfied.


Why? Because if you’re a remotely secular person, then good luck getting through the open-your-heart-chakra mysticism filling the pages of anything about Tantric sex.


There had to be a secular way to figure this out. Enter The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Enter problem #2.


The Multi-Orgasmic Man is the oft-cited source on this subject, but it shouldn’t be. It’s poorly written and at least 2/3 of the book is spent talking about itself instead of giving you something actionable to do.


But, with that research combined, I did ultimately figure out how you can have non-ejaculatory orgasms without any eastern mysticism.


Then with a bit of experimentation, I figured out how you can extend them significantly.